I made up the Barbie doll syndrome up quite a long time ago to describe men that are abusive, controlling and always blame the victim.
They are very controlling, distort the truth and no intimacy with a woman is required for them to obsess, focus or fantasize about a woman and hope that she will be his living breathing barbie doll. Of course no woman could put up with this, at all or very long and a narcissist with a fragile ego could get violent especially if his "barbie" is not reflecting back what he wants or needs....
As I said no intimacy required.
He may start with just "words", a verbal assault or series of them blaming the woman and can escalate. The worst case scenario is murder.
Men suffering from The Barbie Doll Syndrome are misogynists.
They are narcissist, liars....they speak partial truths or flat out lies. They are very vain creatures and their focus on women -- weighing them and judging them, attempting to control them again is relief for their terrible flaws which they can't face and compensate with by being vain and obsessed with looks.
They hate themselves but focusing on a woman, attempting to control her is a vacation from their self hate....disparaging her, lying about her, blaming her is also a vacation from their self hate.
Wednesday, June 9, 2010
Tuesday, June 1, 2010
Christine Quinn, Mike Bloomberg's mini-me
Around NYC Christine Quinn is called "mini-me", a phrase I started using along with the mayor's puppet.
She did his bidding denying us a referendum and pushing a 3rd term through city council.
She had gotten big campaign donations from developers that look like kick-backs....
She caters to developers at the expense of the people.
Christine Quinn is Mike Bloomberg's mini-me.
She did his bidding denying us a referendum and pushing a 3rd term through city council.
She had gotten big campaign donations from developers that look like kick-backs....
She caters to developers at the expense of the people.
Christine Quinn is Mike Bloomberg's mini-me.
Sunday, May 23, 2010
Combatting Misogynist with NYC Stieg Larsson Swedish Movie Poster The Men Who Hate Women & Peace Keeper Nail polish
Suzannah B. Troy with "Peace Keeper" nail polish, a company that a supports women and human rights with her Swedish Poster "The Men Who Hate Women" aka "The Girl With The Dragon Tattoo" by Stieg Larsson
Friday, May 21, 2010
"orgy of admiration"
way back when a community member told me how scott stringer ( a complete waste of tax payer money) was praising community board 3) at the time the chair was David McWater and he owns a lot of bars -- I call him the bar czar and he being chair was a huge conflict of interest and there were other conflicts as well...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TaOnig_BS-A
so when I heard it was a praise fest while our community was being crushed by over the top development including NYU, Cooper Union, hoteliers, sky piercing condos and one on land leased by Cooper Union that has nothing to do with higher ed just higher real estate greed plus
let us not forget the brutal rapes and murders of Imette St. Giullen and Jennifer Moore who was underage and out drinking in a Chelsea Club...
I was so repulsed I said -- it was an orgy of admiration
a club
and the people are not being represented. On the Lower East Side Bars and Clubs are a huge quality of life issue.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TaOnig_BS-A
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
YouTubeland Clayton Patterson made that up in front of me
When all my YouTubes were removed and I was banned Clayton came up with the term YouTubeland. I was banned from YouTubeland.
I am a good girl. Even when I am bad, I am really, really good!
Mae West is my idol and I am a good girl. This is for you Mae. I am a good girl but when even when I am bad, I am really, really good!
Saturday, May 15, 2010
nose orgasms
I was visiting a bed and breakfast and the garden smelled delicious!
I sad to a new friend...
I am having nose orgasms!
My friend said, you are lucky, most people have allergies!
sexism
still going strong
all the negative "isms" still going strong....hard to believe we are a modern culture
Death
Death is a vacation.
I don't believe death is something to fear. Death is peace. The ultimate peace and it seems American's have the most unhealthy ideas about almost everything including sex and death.
Both are natural and American's are anti-both.
Geo-sexual politics
Geo-Sexual Politics is a term that means world sexual politics or we ain't equal.
Women come in one size, ....beautiful
Women come in one size....beautiful.
Orgasms come in one size...beautiful.
I do not think The New York Times Art Section knew they were sliding a double entrendre on orgasm for me but thank you Arts Section. Mae West would have been proud of me.
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)
